Hi Wendy-
Sounds like you have a frustrating situation but the right attitude: stay positive! DLF offers some great advice, in terms of having a frank conversation and reminding the "pot-stirrers" that you are all there for the good of your children. Unfortunately, she's also right that these people are not going to go away or change over night. Thought of two articles that will hopefully help you deal with the situation and keep your sanity : )
How To Deal With Difficult People - PTOToday.com
Dealing With Disagreements - PTOToday.com
Keep us posted and good luck,
~Lisa
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