PTO Today

Hi All,
I have a question to throw out to you. I was wondering if and what options I may have if the principal of my children's school is opposed to having a PTO
in the school at all. I have been told that he has been approached to start one last year(I am new to the state) and did not want to have one. I have tried emailing and talking with him about it, and I just get put off. The last thing I was told was if he heard anything he would let me know and I already told him that if there was not anything active going on I would be willing to get things started. I do understand that he is a busy person with many other agenda's. But parent involvement is so important for the kids, I don't understand why he is against organized help for the school and students.
I don't know how successful it can be without his honest support.

Any input would be wonderful.
Thanks
Naomi
naomiledet@hotmail.com

Hi Naomi--I'd get on his calendar and have a face to face meeting to see what is going on. That way you can at least hear him out and he can hear you out....

It would be hard for him to skip a meeting request that is on the calendar don't you think?

d

sad to say but some schools just don't believe in the parent group piece, it may be due to past history or just old school thinking. I would encourage a meeting and ask why not, dont be defensive as that will get you no where. some schools instead have very strong parent volunteering without the group part, I would ask around and see what response you get.

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Worst case you may have to (after trying every other avenue) move up the chain to his boss, likely the Superintendent of Schools. I would (again, after exhausting every other option) set up an appointment with the Superintendent and discuss why there isn't a parent group at the school and why you have been met with so much resistance. Hopefully it won't come to this, but it sounds as though it might. Hopefully you can make the Principal understand the benefits and how this group will be able to support many school activities, such as Field Trips, classroom materials and other items that would directly impact the Principal's priorities.

Another option I would try prior to going above his head is seeing if there is a school council at the school (more than likely there is). Usually a school council must consist of both teachers and parents, and normally in even numbers. I wonder if this Principal is following the rules regarding this. It is also very possible that the school plan is online. Often the school plan will include things, such as the make up of the school council, the verious planned improvements for the year, etc. My children's school plan includes things that are directly affected/provided by the PTO, such as Field Trips and the reading Incentive Program. With what you have described about your Principal I have to wonder whether he is adherring to the school plan and town's School Committee processees.

Let us know.

Good luck,
PresidentJim

that seems counter to everything a principal should stand for.

after all, parent involvement has been shown to improve learning , test scores etc etc

it also helps the school with discretionary spending...does your principal have too big of a budget????

there must be a good reason, go ask.

I, too, would want an official meeting with the principal. He may have what he believes are very good reasons for not allowing a parent group. By meeting with him personally, you can cite statistics that show the benefits of an organized and active volunteer group.

He may have had negative experiences with groups or individual parents that make him worry. Speaking with him about his concerns can help you focus on what type of group will help ease his mind.

A well run, organized and active parent group can have a hugely positive impact on the community and actually work to make aspects of the principal's job easier.

A clique of overzealous, gossipy, status hungry adults can be nothing but a nightmare.

His comment, "If he heard anything he'd let you know..." would concern me. Who, exactly, is he waiting to hear from? Sounds like he's stalling.

Overall, perhaps you could start small, slowly building a volunteer base. As he sees the positive impact your work has, he may be more open to an official parent group.

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First try and get a meeting scheduled with him early (maybe before school starts). If that is not successful, go to a board of education meeting and ask the board if it is against district policy to have a PTO associated with any of their schools. Explain your position and your proposed plan (make sure you have a clear plan of what you want to accomplish your first year and how)
Call the other schools in your district and find out if they have PTO's.

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