If your parent group is an independent organization, the principal doesn't have the authority to dissolve it or meddle with election results. However, he does have authority over your access to the school, so in the best case scenario you reach an understanding with the principal on how the PTO will function best to meet the needs of the school. The are a few problems with putting in a "new model" run by the principal. Number one, if he micromanages the PTO the result is going to be a significant loss of parent involvement. In particular, most talented people who would be leaders and drivers of the PTO are likely to be turned off by that treatment and will find other ways to use their time and energy. Number two, the principal has a lot of demands on his time. Despite what he may think, chances are he won't be able to run the group nearly as effectively as a good parent leader. I'd also say that his quote "not that we need to" comes across as high-handed and doesn't bode well at all. The first step toward resolving this conflict would be to meet with the principal, listen to his concerns, and seek alternative ways to address them. It's important to really get to the bottom of the issues -- is he concerned about lowered morale caused by the personality issues? Too much staff time? How money is being spent? etc. Then seek solutions that will work for him and the PTO. It's important to approach this meeting in a businesslike way, not in an emotional way. If things have gone too far and the principal is unwilling to talk, the next step would be to take your case to the district office. Be honest about what went wrong, and present solutions. Good luck!
- Craig
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