Small School: New Purpose Renews Involvement

DAVE HOLT

Leaders of PTO Today's 2007 Outstanding Parent Group at a Small School learned their group had a clique reputation, then worked hard to change it—and succeeded.

01/22/2014

Effingham Elementary (N.H.) PTO leaders worked from the start of the year to foster an atmosphere where new ideas were welcomed. They changed their focus from fundraising to building involvement. The results included four new family fun nights where students and parents ate together, then participated in team-building activities. The group shed the perception that it was a clique and built from a few regulars to 50 members. They also ran a large after-school program and helped build a nature and fitness trail around the school.

What the judges loved: Once a PTO has a “clique” reputation, it can be extremely difficult to change people’s attitudes—both within and outside the group. Effingham PTO did the right thing by becoming more welcoming, focusing on family events, and being open to new ideas.

Cool fact: More than 50 percent of students participate in the after-school club run by the PTO. Offerings include woodworking, chess, scrapbooking, Legos, and dance.

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# Heather 2008-02-23 12:50
We have the same problem in our PTO that this school did. I would say over 60% of the parents at our school feel that you have to be in the clique to be able to participate in the PTO. Also I was told by our current PTO president that the work that you do with and for PTO is thankless. And don't believe that. I am a Brownie leader and I know that what I do isn't thankless and what I could do for PTO wouldn't be thankless but with the current attitude our PTO has I am not inclined to want to help unless the attitude of the PTO changes for the better.
# Tammy Hawk 2008-09-21 15:04
I am a newly appointed President of the PTO. My son is in 2nd grade and I never attended a PTO meeting before and decided this year I wanted to be more involved. I arrived at the meeting 10 minutes late and the only people there were the Principal, the current President, and a husband and wife who had just moved to the area. The president explained that she has been serving for many years and meeting attendence has dwindled so much that last year there weren't any meetings at all. Talk about starting from scratch! I plan on writing a letter and asking for more involvement and inviting family and teachers to assist with family fun nights and some fund raising ventures. Is there more I should do right now to increase interest? I am going on the assumption that this will be a slow process and hope I don't get discouraged too soon.
# Kia L. Bennett 2008-09-30 18:08
WOW!!!! Tammy you and I are in simular situations. Now with the PTO at my childrens school, I attended meetings last year and there was a VERY strong clique. The new members that tried to attend were made to feel that their ideas werent welcome and they would "call them when they needed them". I have assumed the role of President this year and my motto is starting the new year with a twist. Thanking parents on a Twister game bullitin board. I have made my presence known at the school as well. Try to Meet & Greet all parents as often as possible. Discuss ideas during casual conversation. The clique is disappearing. The teachers have commented on the change and they feel it is a positive one. Contact me if you like I would love to help you.

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