15 Internet Slang Terms Parents Need To Know

Internet slang seems to change almost daily; how can a parent keep up? To help, we’ve rounded up some common terms and practices that you might see popping up in your kids’ chats online and IRL (in real life).

by PTO Today Editors

06/16/2021

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#selfharmmm

A hashtag used to identify (and often glorify) posts about self-harm habits, such as cutting and burning; users also share tricks on how to keep these behaviors hidden.

 

bae

“Before anyone else”; a term of affection for a significant other or crush.

 

burn note

A message that gets erased after a set period of time.

 

catfishing

Using a fake profile or pretending to be someone else (or both) to get a target to share personal information or become romantically involved.

 

cook session

When a group of people gang up on someone else via social media.

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cringepics

Awkward, cringe-inducing photos; these can be used as blackmail and/or be uploaded to public forums.

 

finsta

A secondary Instagram account, often set up under an alias, for posts someone wants only a small group of friends (and often, not parents) to see. “Finsta” comes from “fake Instagram”; “rinsta” is used to describe a "real Instagram” account.

 

flaming

Sending angry, rude, or obscene messages to a person, either publicly or privately.

 

ghosting

When someone cuts off communication with another person without an explanation. Can apply to phone calls, texting, email, and social media.

 

happy slapping

An extreme form of bullying; physical assaults are recorded, then sent to others or posted online.

 

newbie

A term for a person who’s new to a multiplayer online game or other Internet activity and doesn’t know how to use it well. Also spelled newb, n00b, nob, noob, or nub.

 

rage quitting

When a gamer quits after an angry scene directed at other players; it often results from being purposely provoked by the other players.

 

sextortion

Using sexual images to blackmail, humiliate, or get revenge on someone.

 

text bombing

Sending a large number of text messages to a person at one time so that they can’t use their device.

 

troll

Someone who deliberately makes an inflammatory post or purposely shares misleading information to get other people to respond emotionally.

 

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Adapted from dictionaries of Internet acronyms and terms compiled by the Cyberbullying Research Center and Common Sense Education. Family Tech Talk™ and Family Tech Talk Virtual Edition™ are trademarks of School Family Media®.