Rose C writes:
You are in a tough spot. The school doesn't have the right to simply demand you sign these documents or hand over all paperwork. Instead, your group should be able to interact with the school and negotiate a solution. In terms of signing away any control over fundraisers and activities, this could be one to dig in your heels and assert yourself as an independent body. No, you don't have 501c(3) status, which would give you a little more clout, but you are still an independent parent group. Your group could point out to the school, for example, that by taking away all your independence, they could be doing themselves a disservice. It's pretty common that when a group loses its autonomy, parent involvement drops off significantly. People want to feel like they get things accomplished; if there's too much red tape, they'll stop volunteering. And needless to say, less involvement typically leads to reduced fundraising results.
I feel for you in your particular situation. It's great that you're serving as PTO treasurer, but the I'm sure your two positions are putting you in a difficult spot. If this is a situation where you need to step back and let others do the negotiating, that certainly would be understandable.
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