I'm a "do it yourselfer" on most things, but I really think you need professional legal advice, and specifically someone who deals with non-profit law! Here's a website from the California courts that's a guide to free and low cost legal help:
www.courtinfo.ca.gov/selfhelp/lowcost/
. Maybe that's at least a starting place if you don't have your own sources.
It sounds like your entire board may have exposed itself to personal liability on this. It may be too late, but I would at least look at starting a whole new, unrelated organization. New name, new checking account, new bylaws, no transfer of funds, etc.
As far as all the "stuff" people are telling you, make them give you specifics. Ask them to show you the statute. Even if you don't understand it - get a copy. People (even in good faith) will cite you chapter and verse of things that don't actually exist. Also, "policies" often get stated as "laws". Not the same thing at all.
I guess it's possible there's a state law prohibiting the use of PTO funds for penalties and such. (anything is possible). But it seems highly unlikely. The PTO is a legal entity. How can anyone say it can't pay duely owed taxes and penalties? We paid the state a (small) penalty this year for a late charitable bingo tax filing.
My guess would be there are some rules/policies on use of SCHOOL funds in such matters. Make them show you these restrictions in print.
But, also, cut the school officials a little slack, even if they are wrong. PTO's are wonderful, valuable groups. But the fact is, each school district has a fair amount of disasters each year in the form of financial messes, PR nightmares, and ticked off parents due to all these volunteer groups being run with good intentions but sometimes too little understanding of the cold, hard facts.
I'm really sorry you are having to deal with this, but at least let us learn from your experience. Please keep us posted, and good luck.
[This message has been edited by JHB (edited 11-02-2001).]